Immediate connection, trait mirroring, love bombing, that moved into constant self victimizing, extreme denial and dissonance between his actions and basic logic, creating social hierarchies based on supply, constant use of abusive language, smear campaigns, compartmentalizing of relationships, and it was all exacerbated by an extreme abuse of alcohol. I had been living there for 4 days when I packed up and left because of the I’m a grandma and a Seattle Seahawks fan which means I’m pretty much perfect shirt so you should to go to store and get this constant abuse. I stayed loyal to the truth and not his version of the truth. He would harass me, I’d kill him with kindness. He’d lie about me, I’d tell the truth. He’d deny that he had a problem.
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I’d send him the I’m a grandma and a Seattle Seahawks fan which means I’m pretty much perfect shirt so you should to go to store and get this recordings of how he behaved when he’d get wasted and verbally attack me and throw my things. To which he harassed me all day calling me wicked names and constantly arguing that I was just looking for a reason to see him. To which I responded “jesus christ, I’m seeing so and so, let it the fuck go” to which he finally stopped. After that, he was smearing me accusing me of cheating to our mutual friends and I had enough so I wrote down everything that happened chronologically including dates and sent it to all of them. I plainly put it as “as I left him because he was verbally, psychologically, and soon to be physically abusing me. I have recordings and screenshots of it all.